You said i was too lucky
To never have to walk
Through the Forest of Darkness
Until my heels bleed,
Hear the sounds of the fighter planes
Going above my roof,
Run against the B-52 bombs
Striking across the sky
Like lightning, like clipped-wing butterflies.
You said I was too lucky to have freedom
In the palm of my hands
Never have to pray to God
For food and shelter,
For coming home alive after the war
Never have to lay awake at night
Wishing there would be no shooting stars in the sky.
i was lucky, because i was born your daughter
I had everything handed to me since i could remember
A pen, so i could study well and pass all the exams
Not to write these silly good-for-nothing poems
A piano, so our house would always have music
Even when someone was shouting and someone else was crying
A lego house, so I know how much you love me
Even when you weren’t at home
An expectation, so I would grow up nicely
Go to school, get to work, have a husband, and a few kids
Isn’t that lucky?
I was lucky, because when I came out as bisexual
You said I still have hope
I was just lost at the crossroads, a T-section
I could choose the path that is easier
Or I could get lost in this dark and tragic one
I was lucky, you said, because I am still a girl
Underneath all the rage and anger and frustration
I still have a way out, you said, and you wish
That I will finally choose what is best for me.
And so, I kept quiet, I nodded
I smiled so things can move on
In a couple months you’d sit down with me
“Time is running out”, you said
But i feel like it’s for both of us
What is scarier? A daughter who won’t get married
Or a ticking bomb inside the house
A daughter who can’t find herself a man
Or being lost in a maze trying to find the way out
When you can see the exit sign as clear as day.
And here I stood, at 4 a.m
In the rain, crying my heart out
I know now that saying
sorry for the 99th times
Still doesn’t mean you won’t make the mistake again
Saying yes to everything doesn’t make you the good daughter
I know now that freedom isn’t accepting
Freedom isn’t being quiet
Freedom isn’t scared of hurting your loved one’s feelings
So you’d stay in your shell forever
Freedom doesn’t cost anything
But I was the one who put a price on it.
t.l.